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Have
you ever thought about what “super hero power” you would like to have? Flight?
X-ray vision? Probably the one I
most often think about would be the ability to be in more than one place at a
time. Sometimes it feels like there are
too many opportunities, too many responsibilities, and too little me.
This
past weekend was one of those times. There were four places I wanted to be: the
high school graduation of my nephew, the high school graduation of my next door
neighbor who is like another daughter, the wedding of a young lady who grew up
in our church, and the funeral of a friend and mentor. Four places I wanted to be; the one I chose
would, by necessity, eliminate others.
How could I possibly be happy with one choice and have no regrets about
the others?
Jesus
said, "Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is
the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the
gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it” (Matthew
7:13-14). No pressure!
I
once heard someone say, “The road is narrow, but we get to use the whole
road.” That stuck with me, and the more
I have thought about it, the more I am convinced that it is Biblically
sound. I did a search of the concept of
choices in the Bible. Here’s what I found: the word “choice” is found 34 times
in the New International Version, “chosen” - 125, “chose” – 45, “choose” – 66,
“choices” – 0. The vast majority of those occurrences are talking about God’s
choice, not ours. Hmmm.
Here’s
one that is talking about ours: “But if serving the Lord seems undesirable to
you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods
your forefathers served beyond the River, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose
land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the
Lord" (Joshua 24:15).
It
seems that the pivotal choice for us is whom we will serve (Joshua 24:15),
which sets the direction of our lives (Matthew 7:13-14). Within those parameters, we are able to
exercise some discretion in our choices. So, here are some of my thoughts on some
filters that will allow us to make good choices without regrets. If I choose A over B:
1 1.
Will
my choice do anything to dishonor God or undermine my life’s choice to serve
Him?
2.
Can
God be glorified in my choice and will I behave in such a way that He will be?
3.
Can
I make this choice joyfully?
4.
Are
there ways I can demonstrate faith, love, and respect in the choices I decline?
Sometimes,
choices are really no-brainers. When
they aren’t, our lives matter so much to God that He doesn’t leave us without
resources.
Choose
joyfully. Love deeply.
Question: What are some ways you can think of that help with filter #4 above?
Leave a comment below. I'd love to hear your perspective.
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